Some conversations shouldn’t come as a surprise.
But every year, employees walk into reviews with no guidance, no clarity, and no idea what they’ll hear - because no one told them all year.
They’re expected to perform without direction.
And then held accountable for expectations that were never shared -
or visions that were never communicated, or goals that were never realistic to begin with.
This isn’t feedback. It’s a delayed reaction.
And it erodes trust more than it builds growth.
The truth is: most performance reviews aren’t about performance.
They’re about silence that lasted too long.
So when a raise doesn’t happen or progress stalls - it’s not always about the employee’s capability.
Sometimes it’s about what they were never given: structure, support, or standards they could actually meet.
We’re not here to blame.
We’re here to name what gets overlooked in fast-paced teams, stretched-thin leadership, and companies that mean well - but fall short on consistency.
This week’s Insight Pause isn’t about calling anyone out.
It’s about calling the process forward.
Because real development doesn’t wait until year-end.
It happens in the conversations that come before the review.
Reflection:
✍🏼 Written by Abigail Richard
Founder of arickard | Coach & Consultant | Author of Self-Love Blueprint & Unbreakable. Supporting leaders and changemakers to regulate their nervous system, gain clarity, and find calm - so they can lead with presence, purpose, and emotional depth.
🌀Subscribe to The Insight Pause for weekly reflections on clarity, calm, and emotionally grounded leadership - LinkedIn | Email
📘 Explore the books
#TheInsightPause #LeadershipReflection #PerformanceReviews #PeopleStrategy #TeamDevelopment